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Our Response to God’s Sympathy for Us

“Do not offer the parts of your body to sin, as instruments of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God, as those who have been brought from death to life; and offer the parts of your body to him as instruments of righteousness.”

– Romans 6:13 NIV


I spoke with a number of young people, over the years, who were professing Christians and they were struggling with their decision to participate in same sex relationships, because they knew what they were doing was regarded as a sin, according to the bible, and it was not right for them to be doing what they were doing believing themselves to be a Christian. I have spoken with teenagers and adults who regretted losing their virginity before getting married.

People have confided in me their sin of committing adultery in their marriage, engaging in domestic violence against their spouse and students who’ve had to get an abortion before and while in high school. I have spoken with parents and students who have confided in getting into a physical altercation with each other in the heat of anger and rage. David, King of Israel who defeated Goliath and was regarded as a man after God’s own heart, committed adultery and had the husband of the woman he slept with murdered to cover up the fact that she was pregnant with his child.

Moses murdered an Egyptian soldier out of anger for the mistreatment against his people while in slavery in Egypt. Everyday we are surrounded by people who profess to be Christians but they gossip, tell others about who they don’t like and spread rumors about others and some even look to instigate conflicts and threaten to, or fight, other people. Like songwriter Marvin Gaye says in his classic hit, ‘What’s going on?’ Everyday we are challenged by our circumstances to respond in a way that honors God or dishonors Him, which reflects our spiritual maturity as a Christian.

It also shows our need to depend upon the fruit of self-control provided by God’s Spirit who is with us and in us through faith in Jesus Christ. We commit sins everyday, oftentimes without even knowing it. It is not possible to go through a day without committing a sin, but it is possible to avoid consistently committing willful sins. God told Cain, in Genesis 4, that if Cain did not do what was right sin would have him, but Cain could learn to master his sins.

Because the Spirit of God lives in us through faith in Jesus Christ we have the power, or ability, to master, or demonstrate self-control, over the sins in our life. When I am willing to master the sins in my life and demonstrate self-control I am now willing to admit what I am doing is not right. Then I will seek God’s help in prayer to ask for His guidance and strength, through His Spirit living in me, to empower me to live for Him. This is my response to God’s sympathy expressed towards me in Jesus Christ.

God’s Sympathy

“Surely he took up our infirmities and carried our sorrows. But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was upon him and by his wounds we are healed.”

– Isaiah 53:4a, 5 NIV


For a  time I was led to believe to have sympathy for someone was a bad thing, according to the world’s view, because it meant that you were enabling them to continue in their wallowing, moaning or complaining and that is not what people need. People need to get over their hurts, grow up and move on. I thought, from my limited perspective, that empathy is what people need.

I have since learned, however, three essential truths. 1) Empathy is necessary in aiding people in their sufferings, because it causes me to understand the person who is suffering, if I understand how they feel.  Empathy doesn’t necessarily mean I feel what you feel, at the moment, it just means that I understand how you would feel according to what you say is happening to you, because I have felt the same way at some point. Understanding that I am hungry, you can feel that, because you have been hungry before. You may not be hungry now, but you have been, so you can empathize with me. Oftentimes people just want to be understood and validated in how they feel.

2) Sympathy, I now know, means that I not only understand how you feel, but I desire and seek to assist you in how you feel helping you to overcome how you feel. So if you say you are hungry, knowing how that feels, if I am able, I should sympathize with you and help you get something to eat. 3) In the book of Hebrews, the bible teaches us that Jesus can be touched by, or sympathizes with us in our suffering as He sits at the right hand of the Father!

This is great news, because this means as we struggle, strive and contend to live by faith in this life, because of what Christ suffered for us, becoming like us in our humanity, He can plead with our heavenly Father to aid us and provide us grace and mercy to help us in our time of need! God wants us to know that He understands, because He has a soul too! He remembers the pain His Son suffered for us in expressing His sympathy towards us in our suffering as we experience in the pain and reality of this life and sin.

God is touched by our broken heart, physical pain and the conflicts we experience on a daily basis that produce the range of emotions from hatred and anger to isolation, loneliness and depression. Remember to thank God for His sympathy expressed towards you in Jesus Christ. The next time you are fed when hungry, clothed, or provided shelter, when you are comforted in times of sorrow, encouraged in times of distress, or experience peace when you want to explode, remember God’s sympathy expressed to you in Jesus Christ, give thanks, and look to do the same for someone else the next time an opportunity presents itself.

May God bless you and help you to experience the expression of His sympathy towards you and prompt you to share His sympathy with others.



God’s Feelings about Us

“Stop bringing meaningless offerings! Your incense is detestable to me. New Moons, Sabbaths and convocations-I cannot bear your evil assemblies. Your New Moon festivals my soul hates. They have become a burden to me; I am weary of bearing them.”

– Isaiah 1:13-14 NIV


When I first opened the book of Isaiah and began to read the first chapter I was immediately fearful and afraid to continue and closed the book! No lie! I was literally scared to continue reading and didn’t for a long time and looking back I now know it was because I had never read, with such clarity God’s expressed anger about His feelings towards the behavior of mankind and in the book of Isaiah’s case, God’s expressed feelings about His own people, the Nation of Israel.

Even in the words written above this devotional writing found in Isaiah 1:13-14 you see words like meaningless, detestable, hates, weary and burden and evil describing the behavior of God’s people. What word would you use to describe how God feels right now in Isaiah 1:13-14? I would have you note that this expression of anger is in relation to God not being pleased with His people doing all that He requires of them as far as rituals, but there is no change in their behavior, or conduct, towards Him and each other as His children.

Christians today really are acting no differently than the Israelites did in their day! We go to church, pay our tithes, read our bibles, pray, say Praise the Lord! Praise the Lord! Glory to God! Glory to God! And even with all that Christians still live in ways that contradict all that ritual we do every Sunday in church. Unforgiveness, hatred, discord, jealousy, backbiting, rumors, gossip, envy, sex, abortions, you name it, and it still happens in the church today as it did then. Obedience is better than sacrifice, the bible teaches.

God is looking to see that our actions, words and sincerity of heart be as real and evident as our rituals. It is not that prayer, bible reading, tithing and church attendance is not important. They are. But so is love, respect for others, goodness, giving to others in need, sharing, being kind in speech and deed and sharing your faith with others to bring them salvation instead of judging and condemning everyone to go to hell. Jesus asked one time why some called Him Lord, yet did not do what He says.

“Wash and make yourselves clean. Take your evil deeds out of my sight! Stop doing wrong, learn to do right! Seek justice, encourage the oppressed. Defend the cause of the fatherless, plead the case of the widow.” Isaiah 1:16-17 Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. would always encourage his listeners, in his sermons and public speeches, when he preached to do justly, love mercy and walk humbly with their God! Let us do the same.

May God bless you and help you to do justly, love mercy, and walk humbly with Him in a manner that causes others to become thirsty and hungry for Jesus.

God has a Soul Too

“The Lord was grieved that he had made man on the earth, and his heart was filled with pain. But Noah found favor in the eyes of the Lord.”

– Genesis 6:6, 8 NIV


When you think about God, do you think about Him having feelings? Do you ever consider God being sad, excited, hurt or happy? Do you ever picture God with a smile on His face? Has our only understanding of God been one of Him being angry, fire and brimstone shooting from His nostrils, directing bolts of lightning from heaven ready to exact punishment for everyone that disobeys Him?

This account in Genesis 6:5-8 clearly indicates that God is impacted emotionally by our behavior. God has emotions, which means that God has a soul too. The soul is where we think, feel and reason. This is where the immaterial heart and mind of each man is located. In the garden of Gethsemane, before He was arrested and handed over to be crucified, Jesus even said that His soul was overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death.

In the 10th chapter of Hebrews the bible teaches that if a believer shrinks back in their faith, God’s soul would not be pleased with them. Even the Holy Spirit, the third person of the Trinity, is identified in the book of Ephesians as being grieved when we commit sin. Basically, we break God’s heart when we commit sin. We irritate and frustrate God when we complain, doubt and lack faith, but unlike us, God does not leave us abandoned, strike us down, or treat us as our sins deserve when we behave that way, thanks to Jesus Christ and His death on the cross.

The bible teaches clearly that God knows how we are formed and He remembers that we are dust so He is not caught off guard by what we say and do, but it doesn’t change the fact that it hurts Him too, as it would us, when someone we love behaves in a way that we wouldn’t want them to. What is compelling about this passage found in Genesis 6:5-8, is that even though God was displeased with mankind’s conduct, the bible says that Noah was found with favor in God’s eyes. When God looks down on the earth, does He look with favor upon you? If God wanted to start the human race over, would He begin with you? That is a challenging question for anybody, including me!

The bible teaches in II Chronicles 16:9 that God’s eyes look to and fro throughout the earth to strengthen the hearts and show Himself strong on behalf of those whose hearts are fully committed to Him and I often pray that God would see my faith as He looks over the earth and find favor with me. I believe Noah caught God’s attention, excited God and made Him smile, because Noah invested His life in trying to live for God and please Him. I believe God was pleased and happy with Noah, because Noah’s heart was devoted to God and loyal to living in the way God intended him too. I don’t believe Noah was perfect, but I do believe Noah strived to live as if he was by doing what God wanted him to do.

May God bless you and help you to live in a manner worthy of the gospel and walk worthy in the calling of Jesus Christ to experience the fullness of life Christ came for us to have.


Our Humanity Apart from Christ

“If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must master it.”

– Genesis 4:7 NIV


How do you feel when a teacher allows one student to do something that another student is refused the privilege to do? How do you feel when one student receives a certain punishment for breaking a school rule and another student does not receive the same discipline for their actions? How do you feel when you are being compared to your brother, or sister, because your actions, behavior, or effort in school does not measure up to their standard approved by your parents?

Adam and Eve’s actions in the Garden of Eden assured us that justice, fairness and equality may not always be attainable in our efforts to be validated and justified in our actions when it comes to favoritism. Even Cain, the brother of Abel, felt angry, saddened and deeply troubled when God rejected his offering and accepted Abel’s. Insight is provided as to why Cain’s offering was rejected when you read Genesis 4:7. God reminded Cain that if he did what was right he would be accepted by God, or receive the same favor Abel did. Cain is upset with God and becomes jealous of Abel, but he neglects to focus on the fact that God is telling him he is not doing something right.

Have you ever felt like Cain? I have. I go to church, I pray and read my bible. I give to others, help and encourage others and I’ve even led others to Christ! So, Father, how come I am angry, saddened and deeply troubled sometimes? I always hear His still, small voice remind me of something else I promised to do, know I need to do, or have refused to do that God is telling me if you do it then you will have favor, joy and peace. Like Cain, I want to get by, do less and expect more from God. I’m trying to slide by, get over and be slack in my effort to live right for God, but I am expecting God to bless me like those who sincerely seek to serve Him and make the right sacrifices and have the right attitude to live for Him and do what pleases Him.

I want to live carelessly and expect to be blessed abundantly by God. I want to live in sin, ignore God’s command to repent and expect Him to be okay with me because he knows my heart and loves me. Jesus said that God causes it to rain on the just and the unjust and makes the sun to shine on the righteous and the unrighteous. Sinner or Saint, there are general blessings God provides to everyone out of His goodness and love for everyone, but there are blessings, called favor, He reserves for those who are faithful to Him and does what He requires for all who seek Him. We can either live like Cain expecting favor without being obedient or, like Abel, we can receive God’s favor through obedience.

May God bless you and help you to walk in the light of His favor, grace, and goodness so you may encounter the fullness of life Christ came for us to have.

Excerpt: Chapter 3 Out of the Darkness

Chapter 3

Temporal Plans vs. an Eternal Purpose:

God’s Plan for Salvation


‘But the plans of the Lord stand firm forever, the purposes of His heart through all generations.’
– Psalm 33:11 (NIV)


‘God is not a man that He should lie, nor a son of man, that He should change His mind. 
Does He speak and then not act? Does He promise and not fulfill?’
– Numbers 23:19 (NIV)


When I reflect upon the theme of this chapter, I can’t help but recall a lesson I learned from the Bible through the lives of Abraham, Sarah, Adam, and Eve. This is a personal experience that helps me vividly understand the wisdom of God expressed in His purposes and plans for the redemption of humankind through salvation. It also reveals to me, by contrast, the reality that His ways and thoughts are not like ours.

            In the book of Genesis, chapter 12, God told Abraham (then known as Abram) that He was going to bless him and make him the father of many nations. At the time, Abraham was seventy-five years old and did not have any children. Some ten years later, Abraham was still without a child. In chapter 15, God reminded Abraham of His promise to give him a child.

            In chapter 16, Abraham’s wife, Sarai (later known as Sarah), told Abraham to sleep with her servant so that she could have the child that God had promised her. “The Lord has kept me from having children. Go, sleep with my maidservant; perhaps I can build a family through her” (Genesis 16:2a). Abraham listened to his wife and slept with her servant, and the servant became pregnant. This story is interesting to me, because Sarah clearly believed that God was withholding His promised blessing from her. God was talking about birthing a nation, but she just wanted to build a family.

            During a Bible study with my mother and sister, I learned from Sarah’s example the consequences of leaning on my own understanding. Sarah reasoned in her mind that remaining barren¾despite God’s promise¾was the result of God’s withholding His promise to bless her. Sarah was challenged by the passing of time, unchanged circumstances, and the same tormenting thoughts and emotions that creep into my own heart and mind to produce doubt and unbelief. My personal experience of having to wait on God and trust in His faithfulness to fulfill His promises, causes me to empathize with Sarah instead of condemning her. My own failure to remain faithful and wait patiently motivates my sympathy for her as well. It also reminds me that God knows and understands that I will sometimes falter and fail in my ability to follow through with what He requires of me. He knows that I am but dust and remembers how I was formed. Knowing this helps me to remain patient with myself when my humanity gets in the way of His divine plan and purpose to bless me.

Let’s keep in mind that Abraham agreed to what Sarah requested of him. It may be because he reasoned to himself, “Well, it has been a while, and maybe this is the way God is going to bless me with the child He promised me.” Whatever Abraham was thinking, his actions compromised his ability to wait with perfect patience for God’s promise to be fulfilled in his life. I thank God that His love is patient toward me, even when I can’t remain patient with Him!

God’s plans for our lives are exceedingly and abundantly greater than what we can even imagine¾if we are willing to trust Him and allow Him to work in and through us. Needless to say, Abraham and Sarah, at the ages of one hundred and ninety, respectively, did have a child born from Sarah as God had promised. It simply took place twenty-five years after God had initially told Abraham what He was going to do. Keep in mind that it was God who came to Abraham and Sarah about the child, not the other way around. This was God’s plan for them. God kept His word and invited Abraham and Sarah to participate in His plans for His people. God has plans for us that He promises to fulfill in our lives and He invites us to allow Him to fulfill His promises and perform His miracles for His people. The process begins with salvation.

            When I came into the profession of teaching, my only goal was to make a difference in the lives of my students. I also hoped to write and illustrate children’s books someday. I recall God speaking clearly to me one day, saying, “Is that all that you desire to do? I have so much more planned for you.”

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. I will be found by you,” declares the Lord, “and I will bring you back from all the nations and places where I have banished you,” declares the Lord, “and will bring you back to the place from which I carried you into exile.” (Jeremiah 29:11–14)

I have since imagined God standing with me at a table with my blueprint of my life rolled out before Him. It is all about my plans and my ideas about life and success for me. Of course, I am feeling pretty proud and confident that these are some great plans, and I believe that God will be impressed with the ideas I have for my life. Then God rolls out His blueprints next to mine, turns to me, and says, “That’s all you want to do? Well, these are the plans I have for you.”

I’m sure I don’t have to explain what this means to me, especially after the reminder that Sarah’s plans only involved building a family, while God was talking about building a nation. The same God who intended to build a nation through Abraham and Sarah, wants to do something great for anyone who is willing to allow Him to work through them and fulfill His plans and purposes for His people.

            “Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever. Amen” (Ephesians 3:20).

            “Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may enjoy good health, just as it is well with your soul” (3 John v. 2 NRSV).

            As I began to understand the context of these two passages of scripture, I began to understand that God desired more for me than blessing me with material possessions and wealth. In fact, the context of both of these verses emphasizes a more intimate, personal expression of God’s grace, power, and blessing for me, if I am willing to allow His power to work in me. I believe the greater blessing or work of God in my life is in allowing the fullness of Christ’s person, or His character, to be expressed in and through me. I believe God desires for us to experience an exceeding, more abundant transformation of our character into the image and likeness of Christ.

At the beginning of His earthly ministry, Jesus began to preach about the kingdom of God. He instructed us in Matthew’s gospel to seek first God’s kingdom and His righteousness and not the things of this world. He emphasized the fact that our heavenly Father knows we have need of earthly things, but He challenged us not to seek after earthly things, like those who have no faith in God. Ephesians 3:20 and 3 John v. 2 both emphasize the idea that the greater work of God’s power or blessing is manifested in us¾as we allow Him to work¾so that our souls may prosper. In fact, I believe that without soul prosperity¾even if God prospers us with material blessings and good health¾we will neither appreciate the prosperity God blesses us with, nor be able to maintain it with the level of reverence for God that He would desire us to have.

Soul prosperity is the transformation of the heart, mind, and will, influenced and inspired by the Word of God and His Holy Spirit to sincerely seek after God. Our hearts become loyal to God, making Him the number-one priority in our motivation for living. Our minds become renewed in consistently generating the types of thoughts that are in line with a heavenly, eternal view of life and way of living. Our strongest desire and delight becomes seeking, sincerely and willingly, to do the will of God in the way we live daily. Soul prosperity becomes a passionate, relentless determination to remain vigilant and persistent in action and attitude in becoming and being a Christian in all aspects of one’s life. No matter what circumstances you face, no matter how trying and troubling life may become for you, and regardless of your socioeconomic status in life, your soul’s desire is to delight yourself in the Lord!

There are many in this world who have already been blessed immeasurably, more than they could have imagined, from a material perspective, but their souls are still empty, depleted and devoid of the character, spiritual blessing, and substance that God desires for them to have. They have not yet discovered a soul’s desire to delight itself in the Lord! This is why Jesus said to His disciples that there would be no profit for someone who could gain the whole world and yet lose his soul. “Then he said to them, ‘Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; a man’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions’” (Luke 12:15 NIV).

The message of seeking after God and His kingdom is given with the understanding that the soul is in need of peace, joy, love, hope, goodness, gentleness, patience, self-control, kindness, and faithfulness, which enable and empower us to live the full, abundant life that Christ came for us to have.

Where can I go to get peace? Who can supply me with faithfulness? To whom can I turn to receive self-control? When the one I vowed to love until death parted us has drained me of the ability to love, how can I receive refreshment and replenishment to continue to give, unconditionally, when I don’t feel like doing so? Whether I am at home or on the job, when I become acquainted with the stress and troubles of life, where can I turn to receive a much needed supply of patience? Where can I purchase the internal fortitude to endure until my circumstances change? Where will my help come from, when no one is available to help? When the infatuation wears off, the excitement of the latest purchase dies down, or the thrill of the moment flees, who will sustain me?

The insight that I have gained since obtaining salvation is the understanding that everyone can receive good, or blessings, from God, because God is good to everybody and loves everyone equally. But not everybody experiences the intimate expression of His grace, goodness, and blessing of the life of His Son growing in and through them, because not everybody has faith in Christ. This, to me, is the most intimate way God can express His glory, grace, and power in the life of a person. The transformation of one’s character into the likeness of Christ is the greatest blessing God seeks to give to a person, because it is what He initially intended when we were created in His likeness in the beginning.

When we really think about it, does God really need our help to do anything outside of us? God invites us to work with Him! I am learning to allow God to fulfill His purpose of growing me up in Christ, by being willing to allow His power to work in me so that His life is expressed through me. This is the greater work and blessing I can receive from God. God created me to depend on Him and to be used by Him as I learn to live through Him!

May God bless you and help you to place in His hands your plans to allow Him to do exceeding, abundantly above all you could ask or think to encounter the fullness of life Christ came for us to have.

Satan’s Influence over Humanity

“Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, ‘Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden’?’ ‘For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.’”

– Genesis 3:1, 5 NIV


What are the trees in your life that God has commanded you not to eat from that you have desire for? Eve was tempted to eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, because the bible says that she could see that it was pleasing to the eye, it looked good to eat and now Satan is telling her it will help her become like God knowing good and evil.

I am sure Eve was thinking to herself, “I know I am not suppose to eat it, but it suuurre looks good!” Or how about, “God, how can something that looks so good, feels so good, tastes so good or sounds so good be bad for you?” Eve taught us that everything that seems good isn’t always good for you.

If you read the book of Genesis’ account of the story of Adam and Eve you may notice the following: 1) Adam was not tempted to eat from the tree, Eve was. “When tempted, no one should say, ‘God is tempting me.’ For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desires, he is dragged away and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.” James 1:13-15 NIV Everyone is tempted by something, but we may not all be tempted by the same thing.

You may not be tempted to do drugs, but you may be struggling with the temptation to have sex. Sex may not be your struggle right now, but what about the temptation to neglect time to pray and read your bible daily? This is why God refers to the serpent being crafty, because he is not going to come in the form of a red suit, horns and a pitch fork, but his temptations will be tailor made to deceive you into doing opposite of what God wants you to do. 2) Notice when the serpent first spoke to Eve he began with a question directly related to what God had already said, “Did God really say?”

Satan knew what God said and so did Eve, but if Satan can get you to talk you into questioning God’s authority, thinking about your desires, focusing on your desires, entertaining your desires and really begin to imagine how good it will taste, feel, sound, smell and how good it looks then eventually he will influence you to act on your desires and disobey God! 3) Satan did not make Eve eat the fruit, Eve made a choice. Eve knew what God told her to do and even told Satan what God said. Eve even told Satan the consequences of eating the fruit, but eventually she convinced herself to make a choice. What trees are you eating from that you know God told you not to?

May God bless you and help you to stand firm in your faith, steadfast in your devotion, and strong in your resistance against temptation to encounter the fullness of life Christ came for us to have.

The Reality of My Humanity

“What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death? Thanks be to God–through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, I myself in my mind am a slave to God’s law, but in the sinful nature a slave to the law of sin.”

– Romans 7:24-25 NIV


The bible says one day a rich young ruler came to Jesus saying, “Good Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?” Jesus first responded by saying, “Why do you call me good? There is no one good-except God alone.” Wait a minute! Jesus, the sinless Son of God, is saying there is none good but the Father.  Why do you think Jesus said this?

In first reading the bible I used to read Galatians 5:19-21 and say to myself how glad I was that I didn’t do most of what was written there thinking to myself how good I looked since I did not do those sins. I was okay! You know, I’m a good person. “The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.” Galatians 5:19-21 NIV

Even today I am convicted to think about how often I read Galatians 5:22-23a never considering how often I did not demonstrate the qualities mentioned consistently in my life. “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness and self control.” Galatians 5:22-23a NIV

Jesus’ response to the rich young ruler’s question was to keep the commandments to inherit eternal life. The rich young ruler began to boast about the ones (10 commandments) he had kept since childhood, but if you read the account in Luke 18:18-29 you will notice he only mentioned some of them and the ones he neglected to mention are the ones Jesus, indirectly, brought to his attention. “You still lack one thing. Sell everything you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” Luke 18:22 NIV

God was not the priority in this young man’s life, because the bible says that when he heard this he walked away from Jesus very sad. No amount of obedience, or good behavior, will satisfy God’s requirement to follow Jesus and our need for salvation. God gave His most treasured possession, His Son, for us so we could live with Him forever. Jesus challenged the young ruler to sacrifice, give, believe and serve and he chose to turn away from his salvation. Being good is not so much what God is looking for as much as He wants us to do good and that will be difficult for us to do without Him living in and through us to help us. Out of the good that you do, what is God requiring of you right now that makes it hard to want to follow Him or receive His salvation?

May God bless you and help you to allow the fruit of the Spirit to grow in you and be reproduced through you as you encounter the fullness of life Christ came for us to have.

The Evidence of Christ in Me

“Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the sinful nature with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.”

– Galatians 5:24-26 NIV


 What is the evidence of an apple tree being an apple tree? How do you know when you drink a Coke you’re not drinking Sprite? What is the evidence that my mood is a positive one compared to a negative one? Why the questions? Jesus said that a good tree will only bear good fruit, while a bad tree will only bear bad fruit. If you make a tree good it will bear good fruit. He also said that good things can only come out of the person who has good things stored up in them and out of the overflow of the heart the mouth will speak.

According to what Jesus spoke, what kind of tree do you see yourself to be right now in your life? The kind of fruit that is being produced by the actions of your life is the best assessment of identifying the type of tree you are right now. The kind of person you are, your character, is easily determined by the choices and actions that you make and demonstrate consistently on a daily basis, even when no one is looking!

The amount of good any person has, including myself, is only determined by the amount of good I am allowing to be planted in me through my effort to read and study God’s word and let it be hidden in my heart. David, the King of Israel who defeated Goliath, said that he hid God’s word in his heart so he would not sin against God and wanted God to determine how he should live, according to His word, so sin would not influence his life. There is a man named Job in the bible that said that he treasured God’s word more than his daily bread and Jesus said that man does not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from God’s mouth.

When I allow God’s word to become fixed in my heart with a willing desire to follow His instructions, I begin to allow the person of Jesus Christ to become evident in my life. People begin to see the fruit of His character evident in how I behave. Christ’s character is the fruit of the Spirit. If I wanted people to really know that I was a Christian, beyond the fact that I don’t drink, smoke, curse, get good grades and go to church, read my bible and pray, then all I have to do is demonstrate Christ’s patience in difficult, or stressful, situations.

I should share His love through kindness with an enemy, allow His peace to hold me when I want to fight, be joyful when I want to be disappointed and discouraged about something, allow His goodness & gentleness to be expressed through me towards others in how I speak and interact, showing self-control when others offend me and remaining faithful to God to obey His word, especially when I don’t feel like it.

May God bless you and help you to allow the evidence of Christ’s person to be evident in and through you to experience the fullness of life Christ came for us to have.

Is My Love Evident?

“The only thing that counts is faith expressing itself through love.”

– Galatians 5:6 NIV


How do your parents know that you love them? How do you know that you are loved by your parents? What do you look for in a relationship with a friend, boyfriend/girlfriend, brother/sister or extended family member that lets you know, without a doubt, that you are loved, valued and accepted by them for the person you are. That is part of what real love involves.

Real love is unconditional love expressed towards another person, not because they deserve it, earned it, or because they are special, better, well liked, or even because they love you in return. You demonstrate this kind of love, because God first loved you and you want to give that love to someone else willingly, freely as He does to you. Think about your grandparents, or the adult in your life, who, no matter what you do, how bad you’ve been, or wrong you are they still listen, take time to understand, encourage you to do better and they are not afraid to let you know your stuff stinks if they have to!

They don’t demand without loving support, threaten to motivate, criticize harshly consistently, judge without understanding, or treat your feelings as if they are unimportant. They are not perfect, but they are consistent, considerate, and comforting when you talk with them. You feel encouraged, inspired and challenge yourself to do your best for them, because you don’t want to disappoint them. This person motivates you to do your best, put your best foot forward, and inspires you to seek to live in a way that allows the full potential and promise of your person to come alive to be lived out before others. You know you are loved by this kind of person! You don’t question it, guess about it, and neither do you consider whether they ever did, because you’ve always believed it whether they said it or not. You just knew in your heart and you accepted it.

You respect them for their love, support, aid and help they provide you to guide you and teach you what you need to know to help you succeed and achieve in life. Now before you go any further, ask yourself, do I have any people in my life right now whom I call ‘friends’ that demonstrate these qualities consistently? If not, I might consider why I call them friends. There is a friend, though, who sticks closer to you than a brother and will draw out of you all that is in you to become all that He intended for you to be if you are willing to listen to Him as you would those adult influences you have in your life. Let Christ be the friend He seeks to be for you, through prayer and spending time reading the bible, so you may experience the encouragement and endurance He seeks to provide you through His word and by His Spirit. Let your faith in Him express itself through love for Him and others.

May God bless you and help you to grow in the grace and truth of His love to encounter the fullness of life Christ came for us to have.